Four times a year. One table. Women you love, or are just beginning to know.

Three Queens Cacao gatherings are designed to be intimate experiences, hosted by you, and built around the simple and timeless ritual of making and drinking chocolate together. These are gatherings to slow down, deepen our presence, and connect intimately over conversation and something genuinely nourishing in our hands.

The Shape of a Gathering

We provide you with everything you need to host your gathering. Although you are welcome to attune to what suits you and your community, the suggested shape we’ve created follows a loose arc, with enough structure to hold the space, enough freedom to let it breathe.

We provide you with a gathering guide and all the tools you need to host your first gathering, including candles, journals, pens, conversation cards, and of course, drinking chocolate, along with instructions and how to prepare it.

All you need is a couple of hours and a group of people who are yearning for connection.

Who Hosts

You don't need to be a leader, a wellness practitioner, or someone who loves to cook. The hosts who've found this most meaningful are women who simply wanted a reason to bring people they care about — or people they barely know — into a room and actually be together.

Gatherings work beautifully with:

  • Close friends who've lost the habit of deeper sharing

  • Acquaintances you've always wanted to know better

  • Mixed groups — different pockets of your life, strangers to each other

  • Practitioners and healers who want a ritual container for community

  • Any moment worth marking — a birthday, a season change, a new beginning

The sweet spot is 5–7 people. Smaller feels intimate. Larger starts to fragment.

The Seasonal Discovery Set

Each season, we release a new gathering set — a different drinking chocolate, a new set of reflection cards, and other delights chosen to match the mood of the moment. The ritual stays the same. What you bring to it changes with the year.

What's in the gathering set

Everything you need to host your first gathering, including:

  • Drinking chocolate (sourced directly from excellent farms we know and trust)

  • A gathering guide, with the shape of the gathering, step by step

  • Reflection cards with prompts designed for depth without pressure

  • A Chocolate 101 card to share with guests — what cacao is, where it comes from, why it's different from what they've had before

  • Information on how cacao supports well-being

  • Suggested spices and milks

You can purchase the Drinking Chocolate Discovery Set on your own, or have your guests chip in.

What Hosts Are Saying

  • "A gathering with community to explore drinking chocolate while centering presence, truth, belonging, love, and community.

    —Kitsy

  • "As women, we're constantly caring for other people. It's nice to gather and focus on ourselves — pouring into each other's health and spiritual wellbeing."

    —Maari

  • "A meaningful opportunity to gather with women, experience the benefits of drinking chocolate, practice real self-care, and share reflections."

    —L

  • "A truly unique experience — gathering people you care about, exploring history and health in an unexpected way, and then layering in a ritual that makes space for quiet personal reflection. Who among us actually makes time for that? This is a chance to intentionally slow down."

    -L

  • "I felt extremely held — by the cacao, by the richness of it, and by the community. There was a sense of remembering, and encouragement in the simple fact that we were together."

    -Danielle

About the Chocolate, Ritual, and Lineage

The drinking chocolate in your Discovery Set is sourced directly from farmers and makers at origin — currently from the North Shore of Oahu, Hawaii. We choose cacao that preserves the true flavor and lineage of the plant, and ensures the people who cultivate it are honored and compensated fairly.

Cacao is rich in theobromine, magnesium, and antioxidants that support the heart, uplift mood, and calm the nervous system. It is not hot chocolate. It is not a supplement. It is something older than both — a plant that women have been gathering around for thousands of years.

Although our drinking chocolate is made from 100% cacao, it is not ceremonial cacao. Ceremonial cacao is grown, harvested, and prepared by Indigenous Mesoamerican communities for sacred purposes, and carries a cultural and spiritual lineage that is not ours to claim. We honor that tradition, and have chosen to root our gatherings in a different one: the long, global history of women gathering around something nourishing to tell the truth, rest together, and remember who they are.

Ready to Host?

Get a Seasonal Gathering Set